My name is Jason, and in some ways I think I skew toward the negative. I'm cynical for sure, probably a bit jaded, and sometimes a pessimist. And from what I've seen, I'm not alone. As a general rule it seems, humanity tends to notice and remember the bad things that happen to them more readily than the good. This may be some sort of evolutionary survival mechanism. It was likely more important for our stone age forebears to remember a sabertooth tiger's deadly fangs, and not its soft fur. Whatever the cause, it would seem we are programmed to see the glass as half empty.
However, I suspect that this proclivity for the negative is more cultural than genetic. I think it's a learned response to a dangerous world, and thus, a response that can be changed. That's the purpose of this blog.
Each day for the entirety of 2009, Kate and I are going to write about one thing that we like. Most of our entries probably won't be revelatory. Mine may revolve around liking pizza and "Dude, Where's My Car." But some will delve a bit deeper. The point is this. By forcing ourselves, on a daily basis to find something positive, something good in the world, we force our minds to shift focus and see, as an immediate response, a half full glass of scotch, instead of a half empty one. Assuming the experiment works, I'll celebrate by creating a few completely empty glasses of scotch.
So here's my first entry. I like beginning things. I like to have many projects going at once. I often don't finish most of them, probably because it's the starting of the thing that entices me the most. It's the adventure, the challenge, and the distraction. I like that, in beginning something, you had no idea what the end is, or where it lies. There's that heady euphoria that comes with beginnings, where all of your grand visions for your project still seem possible. I love the hours of thought that go into planning and fantasizing, imagining where a particular project might lead, and the beginning of the project throws open the door for realization.
I like beginning things.
Hi Jason and Kate,
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely idea and how interesting that just after I read our events for the day at UNITARIAN UNIVERSALISTS OF CLEARWATER
OPEN ISSUES 9:30 am Open Issues: John Chase, Obama and his Green Team
and the
Worship Service, Sunday, lead by Elly Kelly Baker
January 4th at 10:30 AM
This season of change is especially hopeful. A positive shift in
consciousness is expanding---a paradigm shift from separation to
connection, from conflict to collaboration, from fear to love.
We are letting go the lines which tied us to the Land of Duality. We're
finally pushing offshore, learning to dock our egos, trust the winds of
change and raise our sails of sympathetic vibration as we discover
infinite oceans of interactive consciousness.
If you feel you're still in the marina, no problem. Shining stars of
wisdom and compassion, altruists and avatars, will guide our journey.
I wish you well on your blog, your relationship, the New Year and Your lives! This better not disappear my comments again!
Hugs, Aunt Susie aka Susan Patricia Golden www.UniversalMusicDay.org and www.FamilyMusicNetwork.net